Saturday, January 1, 2022

2021 Year in Review

What a year 2021 has been! In January Ridge graduated from primary and became a deacon. Kara had her 9th birthday. We spent a lot of time skiing in January and February. Jake and I were in charge of the 6th grade "un-dance" for Valentine's this year. (Because of Covid they weren't allowed to hold a dance this year). Jake and I came up with a game show idea, calling it "The Game of Love." The kids loved it! The first part of March our family all got sick with COVID. Thankfully we were better before spring break so we could enjoy our family vacation with Shane and Geana's family to Puerto Morelos Mexico. We had a great time there! We wrapped up the end of the school year- Ridge graduated from 6th grade, Gunnar finished 9th, Kara 3rd and Dalton 11th. The kids are now in 4th, 7th, 10th, and Dalton is a Senior! Time is flying! We spent the first part of the summer with the boys all going on their high adventure trips. Dalton, Jake, and the rest of the priest's went to Capital Reef and did some awesome hikes, Gunnar and the teachers went to Moab and did a lot of mountain biking, and Ridge went camping with the deacons to Mantua. Ridge also did a week long PALs science camp at Fremont in June. Kara did a cooking and sewing camp at Heritage Hall and also did a dance camp. I turned 40 in June and Jake and my sister's threw me a fun birthday party. The first part of July Jake was in charge of our Ward's youth conference. I got to tag along as the self appointed photographer. We stayed at Camp Atoka by Monte Cristo and Jake tooke the youth on an interactive tour of the living water's that feed Weber County. From a hike to a mountain spring, kayaking Causey Reservoir, floating the weber river, hiking to the top of 9th street trail overlook, biking the river parkway, and ending at the Ogden temple. The middle of July we took a family trip to do some downhill mountain biking at Grand Targhee ski resort outside of Driggs Idaho. We went with the Beeson's and the Loos.' Dalton, Gunnar and their buddies- Kasen, Braxton, Ryder and Gage all went biking at Big Sky for the first half of the week and then met us at Targhee for the last half of the week. We got to Targhee Wednesday night. Thursday was our first day biking all day. It's lift serve downhill mountain biking so you and your bike ride the lift up then you ride your bike down. We were having a great day! I was riding the last trial of the day and was the last of the group we were riding with. I was following Jake, Dave Beeson, and Trae and Julie Loos. The trail had some fun burms and whoops. I was on the last of the whoops. I thought it was rolled at the top like the previous ones had been but this last one was squared off at the top to make it a jump. I wasn't expecting to jump and I was sitting in the saddle and when I hit the jump I landed top heavy and was bucked out of the seat and summersaulted over the handlebars and landed hard on my left shoulder, hit my jaw-split my chin and cheekbone open, and continued to bounce and slide down the hill until I finally stopped. I knew immediately that my shoulder was broken. I drug myself to the side of the trail with my good arm and started to hollar for help. I remained conscious, but was definitely dizzy and light headed. Jake and our friends heard me hollar for help and immediately came back to find me. Dave Beeson got to me first and helped me hold my hoodie to my face to stop the bleeding. Thankfully we were the last chair of the day so the next people to come down the trail were the patrollers so they were able to radio for help and get my shoulder in a sling. The medics got me off the mountain in a side by side and got me to the medical station. They called an ambulance because my blood pressure and heart rate were low and they were concerned about internal bleeding and organ damage. The paramedics checked me over and hooked me to an EKG. They said I was stable enough to make the trip to the hospital without having to ride in the ambulance so Jake drove me down in the truck. My shoulder hurt like a son of a gun, every bump in the road was excruciating! We got to the ER and they immediately did an x-ray on my shoulder and determined that yes, my shoulder was in fact broke. The scapula (shoulder blade) was snapped completely in half with the entire bottom half covered in tiny fractures. They gave me some IV pain meds then spent the next 4 and half hours doing cat scans and MRI's to make sure there wasn't any internal organ damage. The doctor said that with how bad my scapula was broken they were shocked that I didn't have any organ damage. Had I landed on my head instead of my shoulder I would have been paralyzed or dead. Apparantly a scapula break is the 2nd most painful break there is. (The first being a broken femur.) I definitely believe it! The ER doctor did a great job stitching up my chin and cheekbone, both of which were split open to the bone. My jaw was sprained and I also cracked a few ribs. Unfortunately they weren't able to do surgery because the scapula itself is too thin to be able to hold a plate and screws so the only way for it to heal was to keep it immobilized. I spent the next 7 weeks in a sling. I am so grateful for Jake, family, ward members, and friends who brought in meals and treats, who checked in on me and made sure we were all taken care of. I am now completely healed for the most part, the scapula sticks out a little and I have some scars on my face and arms, but I have full use and mobility of my shoulder and I am so grateful! The first part of September we were lucky enough to get to spend a week in Lake Powell with some awesome friends! I had to wear my sling the entire time and wasn't able to do a lot of the fun water sports I would've liked to have done, but I had a blast watching all the kids and getting to make some great memories! Dalton was super stoked to land a flip on the wakeboard, and I was stoked to catch it on camera! Kara, with Gunnar's help, caught a 10 pound catfish! Dalton and Ridge raced on the mountain bike team in the fall and both had successful and fun seasons. Dalton didn't have quite the year he had the previous year (taking 1st in Region and 3rd in State), but still finished out his Senior year strong and earned his letter award again this year. He has a job working at a custom woodworking shop and also drew a once in a lifetime elk tag in the middle of race season! To say his fall was busy would be an understatement. His hunt was successful and he shot a massive 6 point bull! Gunnar saved up his money and bought himself a new dirtbike this fall that he has been spending every spare minute riding. Kara has been taking dance, cheer, and piano lessons and enjoys practicing her new skills. The end of October my Grandma Marlow passed away. I had the priviledge of speaking at her funeral. As sad as I am, and as much as I miss her, I am so grateful for the knowledge of eternal families and the plan of salvation. I am grateful she is no longer in pain and is enjoying her reunion with my Grandpa. In November Jake and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary by spending a week in Kauia, Hawaii. We loved every second of it! We hiked to multiple beautiful waterfalls, did a river kayak tour, Jake went on a goat hunt, I fell in love with Hawaiian shave ice and poke bowls, we snorkeled with turtles and watched 12 turtles swim onto shore to beach for the night. We did a bike ride along the coast, found some beautiful beaches, went to church at the local ward and loved watching their primary program. At the end of their sacrament meeting all the ward members sang a beautiful Hawaiian song to all the visitors that brought tears to my eyes. We enjoyed every second of this trip but the highlight was probably hiking the beautiful Napoli coast. It was absolutely breathtaking! December was filled with all things Christmas. Ridge is taking choir at the Junior High this year and we thoroughly enjoyed listening to them sing at the Christmas concert. We had our annual Ward Christmas breakfast, had a big Weston extended family Christmas party where Jake and I were Mary and Joseph in the nativity program. We spent Christmas Eve with Jake's family at his parents' house. I loved watching all the kids interact with their cousins and grandparents' and couldn't help thinking how quickly they are all growing up! Christmas morning was magical with our little family. I love these 4 kids with all my heart! I find myself getting emotional at random moments thinking that Dalton will be graduating soon and our family dynamic will be changing. He keeps reminding us that he won't be here next Christmas because he'll be on a mission. As happy and proud as I am at the amazing young man he is, I am also struggling with change and how dang fast the time has gone! I am really wishing I could turn back time a bit and hold on a little tighter and a bit longer... Christmas afternoon my family all came over and we had a festive meal of fancy finger foods and enjoyed watching the kids do their cousin gift exchange. We missed my Dad this year, he was home with a nasty cold that he didn't want to share with the rest of us. He was able to join us over Facetime for a bit. Jake is still loving his job at Thermo Fisher and being able to work from home. One silver lining from Covid is he didn't have to travel too much this past year. It's been nice having him around so much. I just started working as a ski instructor at Snow Basin this winter. I teach two days a week. I am also still teaching a once a week group fitness class at EOS. 2022 is looking like it's going to be another big year. Dalton will graduate high school and leave on a mission. Gunnar will be turning 16. Ridge will be turning 13 and Kara will be 10 in just a few days. I've set a few goals for myself personally and we've set a few family goals. Hoping and praying for no broken bones this year!

Kara's Baptism Spotlight

From the first moment I looked into Kara's eyes I knew that she was a precious daughter of our Father in Heaven and that she had an amazing strong and beautiful spirit. Kara had a rough start to this mortal life, but our Father in Heaven has always been mindful of her and kept her in his care. The Lord has definitely had his hand in Kara's life and has led her to be part of our family. I am so incredibly grateful that Kara is my daughter and we can't imagine life without her. From the time Kara was a baby she has had a very strong compass and a sensitive spirit that has sought out righteousness. She has a love for music, especially primary songs. I find it no coincidence that the first song I ever sang to her was "I am A Child of God' and Kara was able to feel the spirit testify of the truthfulness of that song and was immediately comforted. I know that Kara is a beloved daughter of God and I know that she knows that. Our Father in Heaven has incredible things in store for you Kara!
A few fun things about Kara: She has such a zest for life and gets so excited about whatever big thing is coming up next on the calendar. She is so smart and remembers dates and times of activities she's looking forward to and counts down for weeks! She is very social and loves spending time with her cousins and friends. Kara has 8 cousins that have a birthday within a year of hers! How lucky is she! Pretty much the first thing she asks every day after school is, "can I play with a friend?" She loves school and enjoys learning and especially socializing! Her favorite subjects in school are
She loves to play the piano and can hear a tune somewhere and then go figure out how to play it on the piano- it amazes me! She loves tumbling and dance and wants to play every sport. So far she's tried out softball and indoor soccer. She has a ton of energy! She loves to ride 4 wheelers and dirt bikes, loves to go camping, and loves to ride her horse. She loves to snow ski in the winter and knee board in the summer. Funny story about when she learned to knee board- she was 5 and Ridge was 8 and she was watching Ridge knee board and she said I want a turn! Jake and I both thought oh, boy this isn't going to end well! We thought she was way too little and there was no way she would be able to knee board. But she jumped right on that knee board and was able to figure it out her first try! She has always thought she could do anything Ridge can do and she keeps up with him pretty good! She has now decided that this summer she's going to learn to wakeboard- and I'm sure she will! She loves her brothers, even though they like to tease and pester her a lot! And trust me, she can hold her own with them just fine! She is excited to get to have her big brother Dalton baptized her today! She's also so excited to have her Daddy confirm her. Kara is our little snuggle buddy and we love that about her! Every morning she wakes up and comes into Jake and I's room for her morning snuggles!
Kara your Dad and I are so proud of you for making the choice to be baptized and to covenant to live your life following our Savior's example. We love you so much! Bentley we are also so proud of you for also making the choice to be baptized today! I want both you girls to look around you for just a minute and notice all the people who are here to support you today! You are both so very loved! Our Heavenly Father is so proud of you! I know that as you keep your baptismal covenants and strive to live your life so that the Holy Ghost can always be with you, you will have the comfort and guidance you need to follow our Heavenly Fathers' plan for you and He will bless your life. I say this in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.